Anyone that says that getting dumped doesn't hurt is definitely telling a lie. It hurts a little even when you are not really into the relationship. However, when you feel like the one who is dumping you really is the one woman that you wanted to be with for a LONG time, getting dumped stings like nothing else you can imagine.

;Of course, I don't really have to tell you this, you already know. The more you think about HER, the more you think about the dreams that you had, the more time passes... the more you realize that she really was the one whom you want to be with. But, how do you make that happen, it can't be enough to just "want" it to happen, can it?

;No, there are other things that you need to do if you want to get your ex girlfriend back. You have to work on attracting her back, so that she feels the same urge that you do. That's the only way to go about getting her back and making her want to be with you again.

;Here are 3 ways to make your ex girlfriend want you and no one else:

;1. Prove to her that you really are the one guy out there that "gets" her.

;Women long to find a man that gets them, and they know that such a guy does not come around every day of the week. If you can prove to her that you are that guy, then she is going to feel foolish for passing you up. The key, though, is to make sure that you don't try too hard to prove to her that you are that one.

;2. Learn how to create massive amounts of sexual tension with your ex girlfriend.

;You want her to feel like she just cannot resist you. When you make a woman feel like that, she is going to think about you all of the time. and if she is thinking about you all of the time, what do you think the chances of her coming back to you are? Pretty good.

;3. Plan out what you are going to do step by step.

;With a plan you are ready for anything that can spring up. Without one, you are going to get surprised all of the time, and feel like you just do not know what to do. That's a bad way to feel, and you do not want to feel that way, trust me. What you need to do is to find a plan if you do not already have one, because that makes all of the difference in the world.