Let’s face it a lot of pressure and expectation is put on couples in the bedroom, and I’m not talking about the need for sleep. I am speaking to the importance of a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. The fact that men and women are different has not gone unnoticed, and unfortunately the fact they are may, at times, create separation instead of union when it comes to creating sexual fulfillment.

Husbands have more power than they may realize, and the way they go about interacting with their wife will make or break the nature of their sexual experience with her. When it comes to making changes many men automatically start thinking of the bedroom. Yes, you do want to wow your wife in the bedroom, but that is not all that sex and intimacy is about. In fact, that is where many marriages go wrong. Too much focus is placed on the sex or the lack of it.

Use These Tips to Make Love to Your Wife outside the Bedroom

1. Date Her

How long have you been married? If you have been married for a number of years now, do you honestly remember when your last real date was? Unfortunately, many men underestimate the power of a date. You will not want to make this mistake. If you opt just for the sex, your wife may start to feel as though your sexual relationship is just about pleasing you and that will not lead to a healthy, successful relationship.

To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve your wife`s satisfaction, take her out on a date. Many times, getting out of the house is enough to bring new excitement into a relationship. For the highest level of success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a fancy dinner, a romantic movie, or a night at a nice hotel.

Give her the opportunity to dress in a way that allows her to feel sexy and attractive not only for you, but for her. This is so important for women to move toward being able to tap into seeing and experiencing themselves as sexy, which leads to them feeling amorous.

2. Compliment Her

When is the last time you paid your wife a truly nice and unique compliment? If it has been a while, it is time for you to start again. Is your wife wearing a new outfit? Has she recently started a weight loss plan? Did your wife get her hair cut? If so, be sure to compliment her. Complimenting your wife on her appearance will increase her self-confidence. This, in turn, can improve experiences in the bedroom.

Taking the time to notice attributes your wife has that make you appreciate her will also enhance the romance between you, and it will go a long way toward her experiencing you really appreciating and loving her.

As important as it is to compliment your wife on her appearance, it is also important to remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship. Do you notice that the house is clean? Has your wife prepared a nice dinner? If so, thank her for the job well done.

This will not only help to improve your relationship in general, but it can have an impact on your experiences in the bedroom.

See the things she does as acts of love for you, and return the love by sharing with her how much it means to you and how thankful you are she is your wife.

3. Seduce Her

What is sex like with your spouse? Does it occur like clockwork? Do you actually take the time to ask your wife if she wants to have sex? If so, try to refrain from doing so. Yes, you may be rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but why not take the chance? Be spontaneous. Seduce your wife. Make her want to have sex with you.

Women want their man to take them. The raw energy allows a release of passion that women crave and desire, but don’t know how to ask their husband to provide. Be the "animal" she desires, and you will both be howling.

4. Fulfill Her Fantasies

In keeping with seducing your wife let her know you want to fulfill her fantasies. It may take your wife a few times to open up about what she likes or fantasizes about sexually, but the information will likely come out soon. Give it your all to fulfill your wife`s sexual fantasies. It is also important to note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and sexual desires with your wife.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways you can go about improving the intimacy in your relationship. Please remember, however, that you want to get started in someplace other than the bedroom. Sex in a marriage is about more and should be more than just the act itself. Taking the time to date and compliment your wife will more than pay off in the end.

Use Technology to Your Advantage

Are you looking for an easy, yet unique way to improve your sex life or even just your relationship in general? If you are, do you and your partner own and use cell phones? If so, improving your relationship through the use of text messages is a fun and creative, yet unique approach. If you haven`t already tired this approach, you should.

As nice as it is to hear that text messaging can help to improve your communication or your sex life, you may be looking for more information. First, you may be wondering if it is really possible. Can a simple text message ignite passion in your relationship? Yes, it can. In fact, you may be surprised just how much passion can be ignited. Please continue reading on for more information on just how it can and should be done.

For starters, do you have any sexual fantasies or desires that you would like to see transformed into reality? Are you bored with your current level of intimacy and would like to make changes? If so, you need to speak with your partner. Unfortunately, this is often a lot easier said than done for some men and women. You should have no problem talking to your partner about intimacy, but the subject may be one that makes you feel uncomfortable. If that is the case, text messaging may be an easy approach to take.

The ability to mask yourself behind a cell phone may provide you with a certain level of comfort and peace of mind.

In addition to using text messages as a way to improve your communication and your sex life, you can and should use it as a form of foreplay. Unfortunately, many individuals make the mistake of assuming that foreplay can only happen in the bedroom, but it doesn`t have to be that way. Is your partner on their way home from work? Are you in the mood for intimacy? If you are, send them a few sexy, seductive, and suggestive text messages. In a few creative words, let them know that you are at home waiting for them and ready for an adventure.

As romantic and as adventurous as using a cell phone to add new life to your intimacy can be, it is also important to proceed with caution. There are a few important dos and don’ts that you first need to know. Do not send sexy or seductive text messages to a family cell phone. A family cell phone can be defined as one that all members of the family uses, like one that your son or daughter may borrow. These types of text messages are and should be private.

Also, avoid sending text messages to work issued cell phones. Often times, text messages are not allowed, but they may also be viewed by others.

As a recap, text messaging is a unique, fun, and creative way to improve your sex life. If you and your spouse own cell phones, start using them today. You may be more than pleased with the results.

Are you in a relationship that seems as if it is stalled in the bedroom? If so, your first thought may be to terminate the relationship. But, what if your relationship is long-term? What if you are married? What if you really do love your partner?

What steps should you take then?

When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is important to know that ending a marriage or a relationship should only be used as a last approach. Instead, you will want to take steps to spice things up. Doing so may improve more than just your intimacy, but it may do wonders for your relationship in general.

As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice things up in the bedroom, you may be unsure as to how you should proceed. If that is the case, take A Look at Some Ways You Can Add Spice to Your Sex

Life……

1. Engage in Foreplay

When you do have sex, what happens? Do you and your partner get right down to business? If you do, that may be a huge problem. Unfortunately, many couples do not realize that intimacy is more than just about having sex. It is also about having a happy and healthy relationship. If you rely on sex to make your relationship succeed, there is a very good chance that it will actually fail.

If you and your partner dont already engage in foreplay, start. Also, remember that foreplay doesnt have to start in the bedroom. Call your lover; send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing your desires to get intimate with them later on.

Often, to the dismay of many couples foreplay can create an issue that leaves a wife frustrated. I’ll get right to the point; premature ejaculation will quickly cause stress and conflict in a relationship. Make sure you and your spouse educate yourselves as to how you may increase the quality of your relationship.

2. Be Spontaneous

When you want to have sex, what do you do? If you actually take the time to ask your partner if they want to be intimate with you, you may be doing more harm than good. Asking first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than something that should bring you pleasure? The next time that you want to move to the bedroom, don`t ask first. Just lead your partner there. In fact, who needs a bedroom?

Know that being spontaneous is about more than not talking about sex first. Ways that you can be spontaneous with your partner is to have sex at a different time, date, or place.

3. Talk about Your Fantasies

One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn`t having their desires fulfilled. If that is the case with you, does your partner know what you like or what you want to get out of being intimate? If not, it is time for you to let them know. Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires. What would you like to try in the bedroom? In addition to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, in addition make sure to let your partner do the same? Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter pleased.

Unfortunately, many couples suffer in their relationships because low self-esteem holds them back from comfortably communicating their desires with each other. One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to have healthy self esteem and confidence. You will each want to get some direction for the trip of self discovery and building self esteem and sense of value...this leads to a healthy marriage.

4. Experiment in the Bedroom

Another easy way you can spice up things in the bedroom is by experimenting.

When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options. For starters, you can try a new sex position. This may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement. Sex toys, romantic videos, and role playing are other good ideas for experimenting in the bedroom.

Remember, experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment. It may be a wise decision to first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make him or her feel uncomfortable. Being creative in the bedroom brings energy, passion and fun to your relationship.

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