Female Ejaculation

Social IssuesSexuality

  • Author Carla Tara
  • Published July 5, 2007
  • Word count 574

Does a woman ejaculate? The answer is a definite, yes. With proper stimulation of the Gspot women can ejaculate a fluid from ducts located around the urethra. It is located in the front wall of the vagina under the pubic bone. This is a spongy area two inches or more inside the yoni (vagina) -- depending on the size of the yoni and the location of the clitoris. It is actually South Pole of the clitoris.

Female ejaculation was documented in ancient China and India where the Goddess-spot massage was a common Tantric-sex technique. Tantric texts call the liquid produced amrita, or "sweet nectar." It is a protein-based fluid, found to be chemically different from urine. It is believed to have great healing properties.

This knowledge is slowly coming to the awareness of non-Tantric people like Dr. Mitchell Levine, a gynecologist/obstetrician at the Women Care clinic, in Arlington, who declares that women do ejaculate. He believes that the hush-hush aura around the subject does not help women or men. He believes that is should become common knowledge.

Sexuality, and especially women's sexuality, does not receive much attention in medical school. In fact, one female gynecologist approached for this story declined comment, admitting not to know enough about the subject.

Our in so many other ways advanced western culture is badly informed about human sensuality. Medical encyclopedias still do not mention female ejaculation. There is some information, however, on The Complete Guide to Women's Health.

The quantity of amrita is not indicative of how much the woman enjoys her release. Therefore, please men don't make it an issue. Some woman I've been working with say they experience intense pleasurable feeling of release and often ejaculate three to nine times or more during one session of sex, each ejaculatory orgasm giving them more pleasure than the previous one.

However, the experience of female ejaculation varies from woman to woman. Some dribble a small amount of fluid; others soak the sheets.

Some women get concerned that they're urinating, and they need to be reassured that this is not the case. It is amrita they secrete, not urine. In fact amrita does not smell or taste like urine.

The G-spot itself has been a subject of controversy since its "discovery" in 1944 by gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg. The "G" in the gspot stands for Granfenberg. In the '60s, sexologists Masters and Johnson announced that female orgasms occurred primarily through stimulation of the clitoris, not the vagina, where the Gspot is found. The G Spot (Holt, Rinehart, and Winston), a 1982 book by Beverly Whipple, Alice Ladas, and John Perry, refuted this claim and provides ample evidence that the g spot exists. My colleague, Dr. Gary Schubach, wrote a very enlightening thesis on the g spot. You can find it at http://www.doctorg.com.

Some feminists fear that widespread knowledge about female ejaculation will burden women with one more "trick" they must master in bed to feel fully orgasmic. While this is a true concern, I think that withholding knowledge is not the right approach. Educating women about their birthright to full enjoyment of their bodies is a positive approach.

Tantric approaches do not put any pressure on performance neither for males nor for females. In Tantra what is most important is the deep heart to heart connection and caring between the lovers while they experience the pleasure in lovemaking. The goal is connection and deepening intimacy, not performance.

Carla Tara is an internationally-acclaimed teacher of Tantra, who masterfully integrates a variety of tantric approaches with body-oriented psychotherapy. You can find out more by visiting www.1tantra.com

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Sandy
Sandy · 17 years ago
I agree COMPLETELY Mel!! I was married previously as well; and for 16 years, NOTHING. Yes, I had orgasms (of course) but no female ejaculation occurred whatsoever. It wasn't until I became intimate with my current Lover that this started happening, and as I said above... I was 34. I wholeheartedly agree... this happened because I found my soul mate! Take care all

Mel
Mel · 17 years ago
Women do ejaculate! Real women do I mean. Just Kidding! I had sex with one other man before my husband and with him, I never ejaculated. When I met my husband... it must have been my soul mate! Because boy do I have orgasms and soak the sheets. I can't tell you how great it is to provide this to our relationship. To be honest with you..I can't imagine enjoying sex without this.

Carla Tara
Carla Tara · 17 years ago
The spot is an area inside the wall of the vagina (2to 4 inches or more in) behind the pubic bone. It is the root of the clitoris and when engorged it feels swollen. Some women do not find it if they search too far inside. Place your finger inside your vagina and bend it to make a hook. Then slowly with love press on different areas until you feel a special response. It is a matter of breathing deeply and relaxing so you can feel the engorgement happening. If you never had an g spot orgasm before do not expect it to be like the clitoral orgasm. It might not be pleasant right away. Don't give up. You can generate several orgasms from it. To ejaculate Amrita you press your vaginal muscles down and out. To increase the pleasure you squeeze and relax the vaginal muscles. I wish you could take a session with me so you would experience it with my guidance. carla@1tantra.com

camille
camille · 17 years ago
how do yoiu find that spot to ejaculate that way

Sandy
Sandy · 17 years ago
I never had to "take" anything; I discovered that I had this gift when I met my Lover and we had the most explosive sex I'd ever had in my life. I was in love, and in lust with him!! I was 34 when we met, and never before had it ever happened to me. And just as the article says, I really did think it was urine at first (as did he)... but then when it kept happening, and we did some research, we found that it was REAL. It is a truly wonderful and erotic experience, and there's no feeling in the world like it. To this day (I am nearing 40) I still soak the bed everytime we make love. It turns my Lover on IMMENSELY and I believe it is an amazing gift to have as a woman.

Perinia
Perinia · 17 years ago
I took Sentia to be able to have orgasms. Now I feel orgasms and ejaculate rather often.

Becbec
Becbec · 18 years ago
Women do ejaculate. I ejaculate every time I have sex. I think that women who don't ejaculate have low sex drive because I started to ejaculate after the course of Sentia, a drug which increase sex drive.

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